韩梅梅编写的《有些事现在不做，一辈子都不会做了5：两个人的生活 》是《有些事现在不做，一辈子都不会做了》系列书中的第五本。这本书的 主题是“两个人的生活”，以两个人的日常相处为切入点，作者提倡“只要 去做，生活就会改变”，从彼此爱护、相互包容及保有独立性等方面，以积 极的态度，鼓励读者，从相知相恋相处中的小事开始，去做一件又一件的小 事，生活的质量就改变了，相处的融洽度和归属感也就提高了。 《有些事现在不做，一辈子都不会做了5：两个人的生活》延续前四本 书一贯积极、鼓励的风格，为读者怎样处理两性相处和日常生活提供一些建 议，明确提出读者一些平时想不到或者想到了却一直没有去做到的生活中的 事情，提供简便易行并行之有效的方法。

自从有了你 Since you entered my heart 触碰 Touch 他会喜欢这样的你 He likes you so 她会喜欢这样的你 She likes you so 如果他不知道怎么做，那你就直接提要求 If he doesn't know how to do， you make a demand directly 两个人分享童年往事 Lovers share childhood memories 互相监督改掉坏习惯 Mutual supervision， get rid of the bad habit 自省 Self-examination 两个人，宁静饮茶 Lovers have tea quietly 尊重彼此的选择 Respect mutual choice 当我们老了 As we get old 莉香，别来无恙？——两个人的《东京爱情故事》 Lixiang， how have you been？ ——Tokyo Love Story of lovers 回他的家乡 Go to his hometown 给她洗头 Wash her hair 简单的温暖——一起逛宜家 Simple warm——let's go to IKEA together 给他剪发 Cut his hair 两个人的几米绘本 Lovers' picture book of Jimmy 采撷鲜花 Gather flowers 阳台烧烤 Barbecue in baloney 女人天生会收纳 Women are born to clear away 监督对方多喝水 Supervise each other to drink more 在他的包里，放一包纸巾 Put tissues in his bag 为他写一首歌 Write a song for him 不要试图去探寻他过去的感情 Don’t try to seek his past love 关心它们 Care for them 给他剪指甲 Help to cut the nails 一起站在镜子前刷牙 Brushing the teeth standing together in front of mirror 搜集搞笑微博给他(她)看 Show him (her) you collected funny microblog 列出另一半的10个优点，把这个清单给他看 List 10 advantages of the other 记下他的梦话 Write dowm his somniloquy 有了对方，不再暴饮暴食 Not to overeating for each other 辞职去旅行 Quit job to travel 巴普洛夫起床法 Pavlovian of getting up 爱你就像爱生命 I love you as I love my life 两个人下棋 Lovers play chess 给她做一份水果拼盘 Make a fruite platter for her 晚上8点到10点，你们在干什么？ From 8 to 10 on night， what are you doing？ 一起去健身房 Let’s work out at the gym 为对方小小的进步庆祝一下！ Let’s celebrate for each other’s advancement！ 两个人养一盆植物 Lovers raise a pot of plant 每个月有那么几天，她需要你的照顾 A few days every month， she needs you to take care of her 每个月，他也有那几天 He also always has “such several days” every month 监督对方，把用过的东西放回原处 Supervise each other， having used goods put back primary place 给他熨烫衣服 Help him iron clothes 给他(她)揉揉肚子 Help him (her) rub belly 小女友的可乐鸡翅 Girlfriend’s Cola chicken wings 戒指 Finger ring 两个人搬去小城市 Lovers move to a small town 再忙也要帮她分担一点家务 Not too busy to help her to share a bit of housework 去夜店疯一次 Go to nightclub， crazy one time 8个美好的小众网站 8 pieces of nice minority network station 小动作，大爱意 Little tricks， passionate love 两个人，要少计较 Lovers care less 把对方说的有意思、有意义的话记下来 Write down he or she says interesting and meaningful words 她也许只需要一个拥抱 She may need a hug “有我呢！” “Here am I！” 给他做面膜 Help him to do skin-care mask 给她想要的，却没说的 Give her everything she wants， but said nothing 像动物一样 Like an animal 不要总是问：你到底爱不爱我？ Don’t always ask ： do you love me exactly？ 两个人的电影 Lovers' movie 一起去泡温泉 Let’s go to spa 敢进鬼屋吗？ Dare you come to haunted house？ 两个人看海绵宝宝 Lovers watch SpongeBob Squarepants 我爱逛超市 I enjoy visiting markets 没有他，也能安然入睡 Without him， fell into sleep 有些话、有些画，很治愈 Some words， some painting， healing 以两人的名义捐款捐物 Donated money of two people 在他忙的时候，帮他的手机充电 When he is busy， you help to charge his cell phone battery 藏在冰块里的爱 Love hidden in ice 去公园静静地待一会儿 Go to a park and stay quietly for a while 两个人，出去快走15分钟 Lovers go for a 15 minutes’ brisk walk 如果有一天，你们的宠物会开口说话了 If your pet can open his mouth to speak one day 两个人的双皮奶 Lovers' milk custard 两个人的书房 Lovers' study 两个人看《生活大爆炸》 Lovers watch The Big Bang Theory 随便翻开一本书，对方说翻到哪一页，就读那一页给他听 You randomly open any book，and read the page which he wants you turn to 一起做普鲁斯特问卷 Let’s do Proust Questionnaire together 20岁到30岁， 这10年，你们怎么做？ What are you doing between 20s' and 30s' ？ 有了他(她)，健康是你的责任 You have him (her)， health is your responsibility 8个夜晚——两个人最难忘记的sex时刻 8 nights——the most difficult to forget the sex moment of lovers 心情烦躁时，陪她(他)做什么？ What are you doing when her or his mood is agitated？ 两个人的蜂蜜柚子茶 Lovers' honey citron tea 叶子映画 Painting in leaves 爱，就是两个人一起吃成大胖子 Love is two people to eat it all in one big bite 去这里找好吃的吧 Come to this for good eats 两个人，一张纸，随便画 Lovers just draw for fun on a paper 陪他看球赛 Watch a ball game with him 收起你的夺命连环call Stop your serial call 爱情不能大过天 Love is no greater than days 学习他(她)的家乡话 Learn his (her) native dialect 对他的朋友好 Very kind to his friends 一起去参加朋友的婚礼 Attend friends' wedding ceremony together 两个人的梦想基金 Lovers' dream fund 制定时间表，监督执行 Make schedule， and supervise to execute 能说到一起，才能过到一起 Say the same topic， so live together 写信告诉他，你感恩的心 Write to tell him your grateful heart Love Handles Love Handles 在他父母的结婚纪念日，送上你们的礼物 On his parents wedding anniversary， send your gifts 遇到好人就嫁了吧！ Marry if you meet the good man！